Making Time for What Matters Most: A Call to Action for Our Children

By Aileen Carper, President of the Board of Trustees at Child Focus

Time flies. More than 10 years ago, I learned about Child Focus, known then as Passaic County CASA. Once I heard about the impact of their work, I wanted to help. But what could I actually contribute? I knew very little about the foster care system. Still, I thought it was worth investing my time. 

Fast forward to now — the organization has grown, expanded its services, and rebranded. The staff and volunteers have helped hundreds of children rewrite their stories. Along the way, I listened and learned. I participated in events. Gathered support from family, friends, and colleagues. Donated financially. 

Today marks the start of Child Abuse Prevention Month, and there is no time like the present to do those very things. Learn more, get involved, make a difference. Take action however you can – and believe me, you can. Read on.

For me, I often feel like I’m not doing enough despite serving as Board President. Time gets away from me. Work, family, and life take over. Doing everything or anything well feels out of reach. I know I’m not alone. Many of us opt out of helping others out of fear we will fall short. We may think we don’t have enough time to contribute in a meaningful way.

I want to reframe this thinking. Instead, let’s focus on the very real possibility that our action, however small it may seem to us, may be exactly what’s needed in the moment. What if our timing is just enough to help? What if we inspire others to pick up the baton and run? We can be the spark. 

Time for Reflection 

These days, I often find myself reflecting on the intricate tapestry of our lives. Each of us is busy, navigating the demands of work, family, and the myriad responsibilities that fill our days. In this whirlwind of activity, it’s easy to lose sight of things that truly matter. As we rush from task to task, I urge you to pause and consider the children facing unimaginable challenges in our communities — especially those in the foster system.

These children are not just statistics; they are living, breathing individuals with hopes, dreams, and potential that may remain untapped due to circumstances beyond their control. They represent the future of our communities, and they need us to step up and show we care.

The Power of Time

Time is our most precious resource. We often equate success with being busy, but busyness does not provide fulfillment or drive impact. In fact, one of the most profound ways we can influence the world around us is by investing our time in those who are most vulnerable. 

Imagine the difference we could make if each of us carved out just a couple hours a month to help children in foster care. Whether it's volunteering at an event, becoming an advocate, or simply spreading awareness about the challenges faced by children in foster care, every action counts. It’s not just about the grand gestures — although we welcome them; it’s often small acts of kindness that help change a child’s life for the better.

The Myth of Balance

In our busy lives, balance is elusive. We need to plan, prioritize, and give ourselves grace along the way. It’s crucial to account for the ebb and flow of life — not just for ourselves, but for those who depend on us. It’s easy to become absorbed in simply surviving day-to-day, but we should also set a reminder to look up and look out for the world outside of us. 

The Time is Now 

Here are a few strategies to help you (and me) make time for others while still honoring our personal commitments:

1. Schedule 'Child Focus' Time: Just as you schedule meetings and family gatherings, set aside specific blocks of time dedicated to helping others. Whether it’s a few hours on a Saturday or a regular commitment each month, putting it on your calendar makes it a priority.

2. Involve Your Family: Foster a culture of giving within your household. Engage your children in volunteer activities, share stories about the importance of supporting those in need, and make it a family mission to help children in foster care. Maybe it’s a summer project, a back to school drive, or the holiday giving campaign. Kindness and empathy are the best gifts we can pass on to the next generation. 

3. Leverage Your Skills: Think about how your professional skills can benefit these children. Are you a great organizer? Help with events. Do you have expertise in marketing? Consider consulting on a fundraising campaign. Your unique talents can make a significant impact.

4. Start Conversations: Talk about issues facing children in foster care with friends and colleagues. Tell them about the resources available through Child Focus. Awareness is the first step in creating a community of support. You never know who might be inspired to join you in your efforts.

Personal Invitation

I invite you to join us at Child Focus. We are your neighbors, your colleagues, your community … and we are dedicated to improving the lives of children in the foster system. We need your help! Truth is, we can’t do it without you. Whether you volunteer your time, donate resources, or simply spread the word about our mission, every action counts. Together, we can create a brighter future for children who deserve love, stability, and hope.

As we move forward in our busy lives, let’s make time for what matters most, and April’s Child Abuse Prevention Month is the perfect time to get thinking, and going. The children facing abuse and neglect are counting on us to be their advocates … their champions. 

Join us in this vital mission. Together, we can make a difference. It’s about time. 

Aileen Carper is a Corporate Communications and Workforce Newsroom Executive at ADP and serves as president of the Board of Trustees at Child Focus. With a passion for fostering meaningful connections and driving impactful change, Aileen combines her expertise in communication with a strong commitment to collaboration, innovation, and empathy.